tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-88821078149667219352024-03-08T14:00:39.463-08:00dating advice for my Asian sisters☆ ★ ♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/09803821519057505112noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8882107814966721935.post-10664747733017703002012-03-31T11:21:00.001-07:002012-03-31T13:39:21.728-07:00This behavior has to go.<br />
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<b>These behaviors are NOT attractive. It's not "hot" or "cute". </b><br />
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1. <b>Not answering any of the calls of a guy who is a 'nice guy' and respects you.</b><br />
All you have to do is answer once, talk for 1 or 2 minutes and politely say "no I can't, I'm sorry" then<br />
hang up after like 4 seconds. That's it. Say a formal goodbye. It might make you feel bad, but this is better.<br />
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<b>2. Not replying to online messages when YOU KNOW he's a good guy or he's interested as a "friend" LOL</b><br />
You're not dealing with a ghost. You're dealing with a real human being who can think and feel AND get hurt.<br />
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Just say, "I appreciate your effort but I can't. I'm not looking at the moment. Sorry."<br />
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Have some class.<br />
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All you have to do is be polite and firmly decline.<br />
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<br />☆ ★ ♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/09803821519057505112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8882107814966721935.post-4496459128972666862012-03-31T10:06:00.001-07:002012-04-02T06:27:55.475-07:00Which is better, Asian or white [new edit]<br /><br /><br />
I think a lot of Asian girls seek out white guys because it's
common for Asians to feel invisible in the United States. They
want acceptance.<br />
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The reason is historical. They often see us as kind of, different. Our
culture is somewhat the opposite of Europe's so their perception of us
sometimes is "foreign".<br />
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Here's the answer:</b><i><br />
White is better if you want to be honored by "whites".</i><br />
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Asian is better if you're ALREADY <u>proud of who you are</u>.<br />
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Speaking of which, just look at these guys! <br />
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Far East Movement - So What?<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-WySwkYnGs&ob=av2e"> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-WySwkYnGs&ob=av2e</a><br /><br />☆ ★ ♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/09803821519057505112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8882107814966721935.post-83248935763890775902012-03-31T09:54:00.002-07:002012-04-18T13:02:25.830-07:00I want to go clubbing! How do I startThere's a bit of a difference with club culture in America compared to club culture in Asia.<br />
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Asian club culture is pretty much pre-set for us. Now, American club culture - you need to understand certain things. If you want to have fun, choose a club wisely. Don't go for super high class venues if you're inexperienced.<br />
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In the U.S., people with different life experiences and social status than you may not understand where you're coming from. For new comin' Asians in America: English counts a lot.<br />
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If you speak with a thick accent, don't expect to hang out with full-on local Americans who've been in clubs for 9 years. If any, the "rules" of clubbing are simple.<br />
1. Don't ruin the fun of others.<br />
2. Be nice to people.<br />
3. Keep safe. That's why they have bouncers in the club.<br />
And, don't use fake IDs. Have some decency.<br /><br /><br /><br />Further question? How do I deal with creepers?<br /><br />It's hard to put a definition to, but creepers are guys who don't respect your space, have a hard time taking "no" for an answer & usually get thrown out of the venue.<br />It's either that or they're disliked by just about everybody there. Here are the set of actions you can do to protect yourself.<br />1. If the guy is violent or hotheaded, just LEAVE.<br />2. Call a bouncer.<br />3. If you suspect this dude is a pick-up artist, close OFF your body language. Stop talking for 2 minutes. If he persists, spill vodka on his shoes then call a bouncer.<br />4. Hmmm, what else?! Bring a fake wedding ring for size.<br />There. Should all that prove inadequate, there is STEP 5.<br />Give them a fake number.☆ ★ ♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/09803821519057505112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8882107814966721935.post-24988654155594797112012-03-31T09:53:00.001-07:002012-03-31T09:53:00.676-07:00Is it bad to be a Virgin?No. Virgins will rule the world☆ ★ ♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/09803821519057505112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8882107814966721935.post-78919758987969513832012-03-31T09:51:00.003-07:002012-04-18T13:00:53.202-07:00How should I treat guys who approach me?This is a tricky question.<br />
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As an Asian dude, i noticed a lot of Asian girls are shy - and therefore, tend not to know how to respond to guys approaching them. Even good, attractive ones<br />
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But every person has "desires" and if you have that, I say choose wisely.<br />
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I think if anything, what would help you is to OBSERVE your surroundings.<br />
If you are shy, don't worry. Pick an older brother who you can trust & respect and who will protect you.<br />
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You have the right to reject a guy. You have the right to NOT give your number out. <br />
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You also have the right to care for yourself. <br />
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So as an Asian bro who cares about you, I say choose wisely.<br />
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It's not worth it getting hurt deeply just for sex? I'll tell u that.☆ ★ ♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/09803821519057505112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8882107814966721935.post-87861416783165237622012-03-31T09:46:00.003-07:002012-03-31T14:56:01.249-07:00Why do they like Asian girls so much?<br /><br />For the effort that it takes, Asian girls are pretty much -best choice-<br /><br /><br />☆ ★ ♥http://www.blogger.com/profile/09803821519057505112noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8882107814966721935.post-79059400829729654652012-03-31T09:43:00.000-07:002012-10-20T16:33:39.500-07:00What is Asian fetish? What is objectification?Fetish is a nasty word. When you say a "fetish" you're referring to an object. <br />
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What is an object? Obviously: has no soul, no heart, no mind. And therefore, cannot be treated like a person.<br />
So if a guy tells you now that he has an Asian fetish? You know. It means that he's attracted to what he thinks Asian girls are, not WHO YOU ARE.<br />
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Asian fever is when this happens in a widespread way. Usu. they see porn and you know, they start thinking it's like that but a lot of times it's not.<br />
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Then, what is objectification? Objectification is a terrible term.<br />
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It goes both ways. It means using a person for sex without regards to them as a human being, or targeting them for violence (when they did nothing wrong).<br />
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